The Flow State of Mind you might be wonder many time what is that one thing which has make successful people successful or what is that one thing that one should practice if one wants to become successful in his life ? Intro : Well there is no answer to above question , yes because there is not any one thing which will make sure that you become successful but there is some series of thing that will make sure that you become successful fast in life and almost every aspect of your life. And from this series of thing one thing is Flow state What is Flow State ? Flow state of mind is state of mind in which one become totally selfless and doesn't experience anything else except the work which is currently done. According to the father of flow state Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi being in a flow state is the optimal experience one experience in his or her whole life. below is the video to understand the flow state of mind in Hindi.
Why we fall in love
“Love is not
finding someone to live with. It’s finding someone you can’t live without”
“You call it
madness, but I call it love”
“As he read,
I fell in love the way you fall asleep: slowly and then all at once”
This all
when we fall in love but why we fall in love?
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According
to Hani Henry, chair and associate professor of psychology in the Department of
Sociology there are 3 reasons why we fall in love, namely: intimacy,
passion and commitment.
1. INTIMACY
Falling in love due to this intimacy reason describe as having a basic friendship. Besides developing a close connection with someone, a lot of people seek intimacy for self-enhancement; it doesn’t necessarily have to be for sex. Sometimes it’s self-serving. Everyone likes to feel cared for and loved. Women want to feel their femininity, and men want to feel their masculinity.
2. PASSION
Falling in love due to passion reason best describe as letting ourselves fall in love because of desire or strong feelings for a person is normal. It is result of feelings that lead to physical interest, sexual attraction. The attraction is physical, and there is a fascination with the hair, eyes and body. In the absence of intimacy and commitment, infatuation is developed with the person you love. People are drawn and quickly develop lust. Some people are obsessed and see that person as a type of object.
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3. COMMITMENT
According to me Commitment is best reason to fall in love also fascinating with the name of complete Love. People who seek commitment want stability and a healthy relationship. It may also be considered that people only seek commitment will may lack sexual interest and more basic friendship interest.
But now a day this commitment reason is like gone extent, In this modern time young people or adults are more interested in object then relationship. Some youth are more interested in impressing people they don’t care about. So everything needs to be consumed, even relationships with people. The more consumeristic the culture becomes, the less interest people have in commitments.
Watching porn is also effect relationship and love very adversely. But talk about it on some another blog.
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